How to Impress a Girl on the First Date?

Friday, September 5, 2008

This is one of the greatest enigmas facing the Male Population the World over and even though each Nation has its own dating rituals there are a few common threads that bind all of the Male Species and impressing a girl isn't as complicated as it may seem on the offset.

Well to be honest not all girls are the same BUT there are certain dos and don't that apply for every first date.I say dos and don't as trying too hard can more often than not have a negative effect so first and fore most Guys, take a deep breath and swallow a chill pill that will last until that first date is over.

Just being your natural self is one of the major key elements in success on the Dating Platform as one day if you continue dating the same girl she will get to know you from top to bottom and inside and out no doubt! So rule no1 is to be easy and comfortable in your own skin. Next best rule on the list is a whopping big DON'T and this is VERY IMPORTANT. Don not turn up with dirty fingernails, bodily odor or wreaking of some really heavy aftershave as that is the biggest turn off from the offset. Clean clothes and a great smile are definitely a plus to your agenda as is turning UP ON TIME. I can't shout this out loud enough but this is a very important factor for your winning over a member of the Opposite Sex. So after showing up on time make sure you give your Date all the attention she needs as this is what is more likely to pluck at her heartstrings. Do not be over Macho flashing your biceps and talking about all the great things you have done in the past but take more time out in listening to what she has to say and ask more questions about her. Let her start taking an interest in you and give her answers to what she is looking for. One of the biggest Date Killers is checking out the Competition. DO NOT and I repeat this DO NOT look at every female in the room while you are trying to win her over as this will probably kill any attempts that you have made so far in the Dating Game. Another pointer to watch is to hold your horses and forget Formula1 racing and travel by boat! What I mean to say is take it nice and steady and see where she is comfortable in the Physical side of things. W e all know you may be a great kisser but let her give out the signal when she is ready before you take the great leap and pounce. Also knowing where to stop is fundamental in building levels of trust and respect between the two of you if the chemistry fits.

A girl who feels value and respected can offer you more in the long term if that is what you really want in the long run. A guy with a bad reputation won't be successful long term so do bear this in mind. If by the end of the Date you both don't hit it off, don't lie to the girl and give her hope, just be honest with her and tell her that things just haven't worked out as planned. It is far better to be let down in the beginning than to give her unwarranted hope. If you follow these dating tips you are more likely to have a home run and another date with your dream girl.

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