Dating Relations May Never Break If You.....

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

If you keep some points in your mind, there may be no chance of break up :

  • Discuss your problem with your trusted friends or their friends they may guide you.
  • Make every date a picnic or memorable event.
  • Gift flowers or chocolates after every fight to your dating partner.
  • Try to know the problem, search for the root cause and correct the mistakes.
  • Talk with love and sympathy and try to persuade.
  • Celebrate birthdays together preferably with none.
  • Say ‘I Love You’ in a new way in every date.
  • Love your partner so much that it may be a world record.
  • Take photographs of each other in different moods.
  • Try to write a poem showing goodness of each other.
  • Make a painting of her/him.
  • For fun tease your partner and say sorry in a teasing way but according to her/his mood or nature.
  • Know that sometimes “No argument is best argument”.
  • Know mutual trust is very important in dating relations, so keep it up; if it is lost it may be sometimes impossible to save the relations from breaking.
  • Know to win over the quarrel in love, a bouquet is best medicine.
  • Do not forget to say THANK YOU when your partner deserves it.
  • Always try to make your partner more romantic, more intelligent, more attractive, more active, more passionate and many many mores but in a way that suits her/him.
  • Touch, love, kiss, praise, tell stories, poems or jokes, sing a song, dance to the music, cook, eat, stand on the head, gift valuables, do every thing to persuade your partner according to her/his nature or mood but keep in mind that the result may not be worse than now.
  • If all the above suggestions don’t work, consult with those to whom you believe or use your brain.

Online Dating Rules - Must Read

Sunday, January 18, 2009

The endeavor of online dating is either to build up a personal loving or sexual correlation. You may have come across many couples where the boy and girl both have met online, who are leading a booming married life. It’s truly a fantastic way to meet your better half or most wanted person of your life. Before somersaulting into the internet/online dating puddle, just have a look in the online dating rules:

  • While writing about your expectations for your dating partner, try to properly summarize the things you are really longing in him. Don’t point up on the unwanted things.
  • Upload the good and sober single snap of yours where you look blissful rather than a group snap of you and your family, or you and your friends. The snap should be clear and give the accurate idea of your guise. This will evade the forthcoming misunderstandings.
  • Don’t wait for the proposal, whenever you find someone toning to your expectations just send an email.
  • Before responding to anyone wait at least for 24 hours.
  • Always pick a good screen name for you which may not be lackluster or very sexy. For e.g. Jerry_Beauty33 or Tom_Guy20.
  • Don’t respond to the male or female who hide his/her correct information like photo or profile.
  • Don’t provide your personal cell number till you are not assured of the person.
  • Block your profile by forbidding instant messages.
  • If the person is not responding within four messages of yours, delete him/her.
  • There are many frauds and time wasters, make an effort to remain away from them by not responding them.
  • Don’t talk about your previous affairs or relationships on the chats etc.; otherwise you might be in a snag.
  • Meet in an open place on your first date.

Seduction on the First Date

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Many feel that this is the most difficult task to succeed in but not so. From time immemorial seduction and the art of are a natural instinct born to both men and women and all they need to do is ooze confidence and tap into that Seduction Power.

Here are a few tips that will get your seduction powers going and the adrenalin pump working on overdrive to give you the time of your life on your first date to blissful encounters.

You have to remember that confidence and being true to yourself are the most powerful seduction weapons yet and if you keep these two in mind then you are on your way to seduction Heaven. Being a fake can only pull the hood over your partner's eyes for a short while but most of the time people can see right through you and if you keep to the honest game then half the battle is won.

Cleanliness is another great turn on and making sure that hair and those nails are looking clean, cut and gorgeous are another good source of seduct-appeal. Mostly members of the opposite sex always like to look at the face and hands in detail of their prospective dates and making sure you look good are essential for that first date to go smoothly.

Being a good listener and also taking into consideration your Dates likes and dislikes are really what can get the date to the next level and also speaking in a low earthly tone has seductive qualities to it too.

Other things that could lead to a seductive evening is finding the right venue and making sure everything blends in to set the right mood, including your dress code. When everything falls into place that makes the date almost perfect. Oh but one more thing, don't get too too serious on this first date as a giggle and a goofy moment can be that one special ingredient to break the ice between two strangers.

Flirting Tips for Men

Friday, October 3, 2008

Men sometimes think that the flirting game is something akin to rocket science but let me tell you it is much simpler than that and can be mastered in a very short space of time.

1. The smiling technique is one of the best cards to use in the flirting game. I don't mean an over reactive showing off of your pearly whites in high macho fashion. You want to turn a woman on not off and if you smile in the most subtle of ways then that will have the best effect. The best way to get this super flirty smile is to think in your head something of a cheeky nature. Yes you got it! That smile we find ourselves making to ourselves when we think of something saucy or funny.

2. Be always alert and confident for any open flirting opportunity and try to flirt when you are alone and not around friends and family, that isn't easy for you to do with others around. So be in your own environment and in your own element. If you are confident and happy in yourself that will be an underlying magnet for women in itself without too much effort. If you lie yourself then others will in turn like you. It's one of those great mysteries of the Universe.

3. Make sure if you actually get to talk with a woman that your voice doesn't sound high pitched and doesn't run as fast as a runaway train. Keep your cool and put on your most sexiest voice to make women drool over. If you are not used to it then watch a few movies and see how the Stars do it. Practice makes perfect.

With just a few hints and tips you are now ready to start flirting.

Tips to Make Your Dating Profile More Attractive

Friday, September 26, 2008

There is a lot to be said about a person in their profile and not only does a profile act as a first impression it also gives away quite a bit about a person's character and the effort you put in producing a decent dating profile could pay dividends in the long run. Like you would be applying for a job and want to go on your first job interview, likewise a dating profile acts almost in the same way as a resume or CV and firstly your job application with your resume will be approved before your going on your first job interview so making a good job of your profile is paramount to your success.


1. First and foremost decide a time of day you are relaxed and in a happy go lucky mood to write out your profile as this will imbue you to be creative and hopefully bring out the best in which you have to offer your future date. So make sure you have plenty of time to spare as a rush job will not do any one any favors, least of all you. Plan out what you want to write in draft first and then embellish it later on once you want to upload the final draft so that if something comes up during the day that you may want to add, you can do that without a rush. Give yourself at least a day to put in writing what you want about yourself.


2. Be honest about yourself on all accounts and write just enough that will tantalize your prospective Dates. Do not be over bearing in your writing and too heavy either as this can put many people off. Try to add a little humor as this is usually what helps bring interest but without being cynical and shallow. This can also be a turn off for many as not everyone is interested in just a pretty face. Often people are looking to share ideas, ideals and interests as well as build some intimacy and if there isn't much to talk about on the offset then there isn't much chance of any relationship lasting.


3. Try to upload some really good pictures of yourself as the first impressions will count. Many upload old pictures or pictures that don't do justice and so lose many points on these accounts. Try also to pick pictures focusing on different lighting and different times of the day. A picture can often speak a million words just by looking at it and if you have pictures of yourself in different styles of clothing that will really engage the interest of other onlookers browsing through as with profiles people often browse through the pictures first.

4. Make sure you do not tell any porkies as lying is one thing that will bring you to failure sooner or later so always tell the truth but do not include your telephone number or email addresses in the profile as you do not want all and sundry bombarding you and invading your privacy so this is a very important point to take into account and cannot be stressed enough.

These pointers should gear you into the right direction to get your dream date and the rest then can follow from here.

Best Top Ten Dating Tips

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

Getting into the dating game can be quite a nerve wracking experience for Pro or Novice alike but as long as you take the necessary steps in advance your road to dating success will be more than guaranteed as the secret to a good date lies in being quite relaxed about it all.

1.First and foremost get yourself well prepared and into dating mode. It is no use thinking about defeat if say one date doesn't work out as planned. Look at dating as a way of getting the desired result and think about what you really want out of your dating partner. So start drawing up a list of hopefuls.

2.Look the part is very important. Getting yourself in tip top form will not only increase your chances of winning in the dating arena but will also give you the moral boost you need and confidence shake up ready for the next round of events. Getting your hair nicely trimmed and styled, dishing out for a few nice outfits and doing some exercise to tone your already good looking body will do just the trick. One thing to watch out for is not to manic about this which will be stressful for you as this will have the opposite effect. Remember on the date you have to be yourself and all you want to do is to enhance your good points, no one is asking you to mutate into an Angelina Jolie or a Brad Pitt look alike!


3.Next to think about is the time frame that you are looking for. Is it a long term partnership leading to marriage that you are looking for or just something more light and fanciful for the interim. This way you can eliminate mistakes right from the offset which won't be painful later on.

4.Boost your confidence levels by not being around negative people and by doing things that make you happy as his is a time for you to shine. You don't want people to be pouring cold tea over your plans.

5.Next and very important point on the agenda is to find people to date that are compatible to your needs and profile. Looking for the Moon on Earth isn't going to work so be realistic about your goals, this doesn't take the romance out of dating but gives you a far better chance of success.

6.Now that you have sorted, image and preferences out you should choose the right venues for finding your perfect date. Are you comfortable in finding a partner with a similar interest or hobby? That is ALWAYS a good start or are you happy dating on the Internet? Whatever you choose look at places where you are most likely to find something near to what you are looking for.

7.Don't go into a dating marathon mode. This will give you anxiety and that isn't what you need. Take it as a pleasant past time and then the results will also be more pleasant so remember to occupy your mind with other things also apart from the dating scene.

8.Dating isn't your full time job so what you need to do is chill and actually enjoy the experience instead of thinking about deadlines. You are not in the dating game to write a thesis and present it to your Tutor, this is something you are indulging in at your own pace.

9.When dating try not to give everything of yourself too fast too soon and that includes the sexual nature of the relationship. Unless you are looking for purely sexual relations then it isn't classed as dating so if you want to be part of real dating life then a little bit of the cat and mouse mystery should evolve in order for the experience of love to grow and excitement last for longer. Giving you both time to show feelings is a great way to make dating a joyful and successful experience.

10. A very important point is to not lose sleep over dating as you want to look fresh so drinking plenty of water, getting enough BEAUTY SLEEP and eating the RIGHT FOODS is essential in getting the optimum out of your dating experiences. Loving yourself and taking care of your assets is the best thing you can do before letting someone else into your life.

What to do on First Date?

Sunday, September 7, 2008

The first date has to be the most nerve wracking one but once you get over the initial climbing up The Frozen Mountain routine you should be well on your way to actually enjoying this experience and this is what you should bear in mind from the beginning. You actually want to have a good time with someone you wish to date so here are a few first date tips you should keep up your sleeve.

After focusing on the right location for both of you make sure you turn up appropriately dressed and with the right etiquette for the occasion and come prepared with a little gift of appreciation to your Date for turning up and oh this applies mainly to the gents to give the gift but nowadays a Lady can also surprise her Gent with a small token, especially if you know what his hobbies are. If you are the Gent then make sure you have your hand well entrenched in your wallet to make the payments for whatever you will be snacking on unless your Date is a staunch Feminist and INSISTS on paying a portion of the meal. Do not just wait for your Lady to do the paying as that is a sign of a lack of confidence on a Man's part. Make a point of going somewhere that is affordable to you so you won't look a like div if you are in a place way above your means. Remember confidence and being at ease are the keys to your having a good first date.
When engaged in conversation don't talk too fast like a runaway train but take breaths in between and do a good dose of listening and take the conversation as you would a dance. If you are dancing too fast you may tread on your partner's toes, well the same thing goes for speaking too.

If you both have had a good time together and you see a chemistry building give your date a peck on the lips when saying good bye to let that person know you like them. At the end of the date respect commands the day and asking for too much from your partner to be all at once may be a turn off. Offer to take them to where they feel most comfortable and at a reasonable time so you show concern for their safety without being too overbearing. In the aftermath of the date if you want to go out again for a second date phone them in good time, a day or two after the date is the best timing, even if you mean to meet at a later date. Do not keep your Date in suspense as this is a sign of bad manners and immaturity. Even if you don't feel you want to meet the same person again phone them up to say thank you and explain to them the situation in a soft tone and gentle way. This way you won't lose out as you may not have gained a lover but you may just find a friend.